Everyone wants to be a cuckold or cuckoldress these days, and I could not be more happy! I was surfing online this morning, only to be bombarded with interracial sex, cuckolding, small dick humiliation sites, and tons of Fem Domme sites that specialize in doing the right thing to small dick guys.

As many of you know, I started cuckolding like seven or eight years ago. People had no idea what cuckolding was, and often pronounced the word: < kook old >, and their initial reaction when told what it was all about was: “I do not know about all of that! Maybe some guys get off on that, but I like to fuck and my dick is the average.” or “I could neverrrrr do that with my boyfriend!”

Well, I am glad to report that so much of what “average sized dick men” thought has been rethought by the masses. Both men and women seem to have come to terms with the fact that many men are suitable for cuckoldry, cuckolding or whatever you wanna call it. Sure some couples are still testing the waters by role-playing the whole cuckold scene gradually, and others are taking the plunge in to cuckolding…never looking back. One thing is sure, more people than ever are getting on board, and the cuckolding movement is gaining momentum.

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Ten Fabulous Holiday Gifts for your Hotwife or Cuckoldress! ‘Tis the season to be generous and show how much you care.

10. Some top designer sexy shoes.

9. Membership to Adult Friend Finder for one year. I love this site. I find all kinds of men on there.

8. New big black dildo and lots of AA batteries for all her favorite toys.

7. Humiliation video of y-o-u. Record a video that is super humiliating so that she can share it with her friends for kicks and jollies.

6. Fine jewelry not bought in a mall.

5. Tattoo on you. Her choice of designs.

4. Personal trainer and massage therapist for regular sessions.

3. Redecorate the master bedroom the way she wants it. Maybe she wants an island in the master closet so she can be fucked on it?!? Hint: Always think function while designing.

2. Get her and her lover (if she has just one) matching spa robes, slippers, and include IOU blow job tickets. Not that they need the IOU’s, but it is the thought that counts.

1. Chastity. The gift that really says, “I love you”

I hope this gift list helps some of you celebrate the holidays in style. I tried to include thoughtful gifts within everyone’s price range. I suppose you could always just buy batteries if you are a broke ass cuckold. lol Happy Holidays….

10. Sometimes more is more. A nice suit equipped with a wallet full of money. Spoil your Cuckoldress or Hotwife. Buy her whatever she wants, and be sure to pay for her date with her big hung lover. You know he deserves to fuck her, and you deserve to pay for the date:)

9. Cabanaboy/Houseboy Casual Look. No shoes and little shorts.

8. Cabanaboy/Houseboy Evening Look. No shoes and little black shorts.

7. Cabanaboy/Houseboy Holiday Look. No shoes, shorts, and black marker. Example 1) HO HO HO written on chest. Example 2) Happy Halloween….I am not a witch, I am your little cuckold bitch! You get the idea.

6. Pink Panties. Not all cuckolds can pull this look off, but it worth a try. Pink panties let your woman know that you are a dedicated cuckold. No doubt about it.

5. Kitchen apron. Be sure to serve up great food and drinks with it.

4. Your birthday suit after being waxed everywhere!!!!!!! ouch!!!!! Oh well, cuckolds must sacrifice themselves for the enjoyment of their cuckoldress. Having a smooth, well shaved cuckold is the ultimate for me. I want mine to get laser hair removal. Hairless cuckolds are the tops!

3. Magnum condom kept on by a pink ribbon tied at the top. Do not be afraid to display just how short you come up. It is cute:) Show off your little tiny cuckold pin dick.

2. Novelty elephant undies. You know the ones where your dick goes where the trunk is located, only take them to a tailor so that they adjust the trunk area to fit your body.

1. CB-3000. Always in style and always in good taste. Note: This fashion is appropriate for all cuckolds and for all occasions:)

Make Your Man A Cuckold In Just Ten Days~Part Five: (Day 10)
If you missed it, catch up on Part One (Days 1-3)Part Two (Days 4-5)Part Three (Days 6-8)Part Four (Day 9)

Day 10. There is good chance on this last day that your little man will wake you up at the crack of dawn, and remind you that he can cum today. If it is too early for you, simply go back to bed. Tell him that he can cum when you wake up, and that you want to see a reallyyyy big load.

When you finally decide he can cum, make him stand in front of you. Tell him that he is allowed to jerk off his little miniature dick. Once he starts jerking tell him to continue under certain conditions. You can make these conditions be whatever you want. I personally like to tell him that he has one minute to cum, or that he must stop. He will begin to complain, so I then make it thirty seconds for him to jerk off and cum. I start counting down: 30, 29, 28 better hurry…27, 26 come on or you will not be allowed to cum. This technique always works.

When he spews his cum from his little dick, be sure to giggle if you think it is funny. Tell him that you are going to be controlling his orgasms from now on, and that you know what is best for him. Confront him about not cumming enough, and that you know he has been wanking all week so that he must enjoy the way you have treated him. Now you can explain to him what cuckolding is, and tell him that is the way it is going to be from now. Explain any rules you might have, or of any cuckolding events in which he will be participating. Do not worry if he says that he will not agree to it. You already have proof that he will. Now go about your day, and you can relax since you know that you have made your little man in to a cuckold.

Usually men are worthless after they cum, and will not listen, however this day will be different since this is all so new to him, and he will probably have great relief while feeling humiliated at the same time. Try not to demand too much of your cuckold today. He will be busy processing all that has happened, and fearful and excited thinking about what is to come.

Congratulations on yourelf a brand new cuckold!

Make Your Man A Cuckold In Just Ten Days~Part Four: (Day 9)
If you missed it, catch up on Part One (Days 1-3)Part Two (Days 4-5)Part Three (Days 6-8)

Day 9. There is not a lot do on day nine, yet it one of the most important days in your cuckolding plan. You are going to force him to participate in a self imposed chastity.

You are probably wondering if I know what I am talking about, and how you are going to get him to agree to it. You already feel as if though could loose control of your little man. You can see how frustrated he is feeling, and his moods are swinging all over the place. Believe me I know. This is hard on both of you. It is not easy, and you have been controlling him all week. That takes dedication and a lot of work. Now you have to transfer the responsibility of “cuckolding” on to him.

Ask him he wants to be able to cum finally. Even though you know he has been secretly jerking off in private, you need to act as if you do not know that. You know he is going to jump at the chance to cum. You then need to tell him that he can cum tomorrow, and that you will be expecting a huge, gigantic load since it has been so long. Tell him that you had fun, and that you are amazed with how well he did all week, and that you cannot wait until you see how much he cums! Now he is going to be forced to stop wanking. He will want to come up with a little something for you.

Note: If your man has been jerking off all week, and you did not get the control you had hoped for, do not be discouraged. Just going thru the steps of controlling and denying him is a good exercise. You will get better with practice, plus you can threaten not to give him pussy since he loves his hand so much. There are a lot of things you can do. Trial and error. If any of you have any questions about cuckolding, I am here to give you my 5 cents. I am love cuckolding, and like to talk to both men and women, so do not be shy.

If you are following the 10 days to make your man a cuckold series, please stay tuned. I will try to post the final two days soon. I am glad that I posted more than one day at a time. Nobody would like to get to day eight, and not have instructions for the next two days. Who knows what would happen then.

Feel free to share any cuckold advice, or ask questions here on my blog, ladies. I wrote this for you:)

Make Your Man A Cuckold In Just Ten Days~Part Three: (Days 6-8)
If you missed it, catch up on Part One (Days 1-3), Part Two (Days 4-5)

Day 6. Surf the web again. This time check out member’s profiles in dating sites. Look for potential dates. You can do this with or without your little guy, but for this next part you need him to be there to help you. Post some sexy pictures up on the web. If you need to be discreet, then crop the pictures. Make a profile for just you. Tell your cuckold trainee that you just want to see the type of responses you get. Make sure your profile is specific about what you desire in a mate. I always ask for 9 inch minimum, clean, polite, and must send several pictures including full body in different settings. (Some people just steal huge cock pictures off the web and send them, as if you would let them get away with that.) Now it is time for his profile. Only instead of a dating site, post a picture of his little privates on a rating site. There are tons of places to do both these things. Just make sure to read the Terms of Agreement before posting nudity:)

Now it is time for him to do some housework:) Tell him there will be a reward. He will ask if he will be able to finally fuck you, or at least cum. Command him to strip down speaking with a firm voice. He will. Go and get a pair of your panties and make him put on them on. Tell him to start cleaning, to be quick about it, and that you will be watching him. Tap him on his ass if he does not move immediately. Say, “Hurry, so you can get your reward.”

When he finishes his housework, allow him to fuck you using a big toy or his fingers. Be sure to tell him how happy you are about making those profiles, and ask him what type of responses he thinks you both will get. After you cum, do not let him even to have a chance to ask to cum. Thank him for fucking you so good. Tell him you loved that big toy, and how great he performed all day. Tell him that you liked the panty part a lot, and that tomorrow you will take him shopping for his own. He will probably ask if you are joking. Assure him that you are not, and that none of this is a joke.

Note: Even if you do not want him wearing panties in the future, if it is not your thing, make him to do anyway since you can. You need to break him down. Panties are good for a ten day cuckold plan like this one. Speeds things up a bit.

Day 7. Buy your little one the panties you promised him:) Take him to the mall with you. You do not have to do overkill now. Simply go in to the store, and ask a female clerk for assistance about sizes. She will assume that you are shopping for yourself. No need to make a big scene. Just hold your hands up to your husband to figure out his size. If you are not sure, then ask the clerk for a measuring tape. Your husband may already know his size, and blurt it out to avoid the tape in public.

Take him home, and make him serve you however you want. I personally would make him lick my pussy, and call him, “My little bitch.” I would make him repeat loaded humiliating cuckold phrases back to me to reinforce it: “You are my little pussy licking bitch! Now repeat back to me what you are! Sorry, I cannot hear you, repeat it again! Ahhhh yes. Perfect.”

You have no idea how close you are to having a cuckold. I know it is a lot of work, but life will be getting easier for you soon. You have to remember that all this work is worth it. Soon you will have everything you want. A dedicated cuckold:)

Make Your Man A Cuckold In Just Ten Days~Part Two: (Days 4-5)
If you missed it, catch up on Part One (Days 1-3)

Day 4. Day four is play with your pussy day. Your pussy is the strongest weapon against any man. I have no instructions on whether to use toys, lotions, or any other details for you. Just do whatever you wanna do. What I do suggest is that you give a pussy play performance. Invite your cuckold in training to watch you. You are about to learn all about pussy power. You are to tease and deny the little guy without allowing him to touch you, or even himself.

If you are wondering what will make him follow your rules, it is simple: he will want to watch you pleasuring yourself, and you can even offer a reward for following your instruction perfectly. You decide on the reward. It might be a good idea to let him lick your pussy after finish playing with your pussy. Make him clean your pussy up. Whoever came up with the proverbial carrot in front of the horse, they could have just as easily used the illustration I just made with the sought after pussy and the pathetic little man.

If you decide to let your future cuckold stroke his dick, you must not allow him to cum. You must be firm in controlling his orgasms. Leave him with blue balls. In the beginning phase, he will most likely jerk off when he is alone in the shower or something similar. That is OK for your purpose, since it will allow him time to process everything that is happening. He will relive what just happened. He will be so excited that you are taking over control of his cock and balls. He will associate his intense, delayed orgasm feeling to you having the control. You are now getting somewhere, and he is that much closer to being a cuckold.

Day 5. Start by surfing the web. Point out the type of men you like. Cocks that impress you. Show him pictures of the type of cock you like in a woman’s pussy. Make him admit it is big and looks good, if he does not offer up an opinion freely. Start sharing what you really enjoy, and show him what gets you excited. I would really suggest taking your time, this will give him images to store in his head. These images will align with his images of you since he knows they turn you on a lot. By doing this exercise he will have gotten excited (little stiffy).

Abruptly tell him to strip down to his underwear. Order him to do some household tasks. Tell him that you will put your feet up, and that you will be watching him. Offer a reward of being able to fuck you with a big toy after he finishes his chores. Do not let him negotiate. He either does this, or you pull the reward away and ignore him. When he fucks you with the big toy, make sure to remind him that the big toy feels like one of those cocks you both saw on while surfing the web. Reinforce what you did earlier in the day. Tell him you are really having a lot of fun, and that you are super excited since you both started doing things differently. Tell him much better things are going to be, but again if you want to allow him to stroke do not let him cum.

Helpful hint: If you do let him stroke while he is doing something for you such as licking your pussy, and he starts licking less, losing his rhythm, or showing less enthusiasm, then you need to make him stop and tell him why. Tell him if he cannot do two things at once well, then he will just being doing one. Licking your pussy well is his duty. Nothing comes before that!

Make Your Man A Cuckold In Just Ten Days~Part One: (Days 1-3)

Day 1: Fess up to your partner, and be 100% truthful about how you see him. This is not a time to cushion the truth. Not every woman has interest in the same areas of cuckolding, so think about what you want and how you feel about your man not even coming close to being your sexual equal or whatever else you feel.

Although it is necessary to think about what you want, since you must know what you want in order to get it. Now is not the time to tell him what you want. Just tell him exactly how you see him, and how you feel about him. Maybe your man’s dick is not super small, but he never makes you cum. Maybe he does make you cum, but only when he licks your pussy. Maybe he does make you cum, but you want more cock, maybe better, bigger, stronger, or just want variety. Whatever you feel, now is the time to dump it right in his lap. With all this truthfulness, do not forget to tell him that you love him, you think he is funny, or any of the other good things you feel about your boyfriend or husband.

Day 2: Chances are that your man was considerably upset from yesterday. Now is not the time to retract your statements or deny any your feelings. Chances are that he will express anger, sulk, and then do the most typical submissive thing ~he will try to get you to retract your statements. Under no circumstances do this! He may get angry again, sulk again, and repeat this process several times, but stick to your convictions. He may say really mean things back to you or about you. Do not argue with him. Let him vent. Stay calm. Also be prepared for him to cry. Personally this annoys me more than anything. Even I have compassion for someone crying unless it is too funny, but not at the expense of my happiness.

At night, give him your back. Chances are he will try to be affectionate or sexual. Under no circumstances allow him do what he wants. If you want him to perform some sort of submissive task such as rubbing your backside, OK, but you tell him where and how. Make him follow your instructions. Whew. You made it thru day two, and you are that much closer to cuckolding your man. Congratulate yourself for all your hard work:)

Day 3: Surf the web. Look at Femme Domme sites, cuckolding forums, or whatever contains some of the material that incorporates what you would like to do to him. Chances are he will want to see what you are you are doing. Let him read over your shoulder if you want. You can leave cuckold related sites in the task bar, or save to desk top too. You may wanna just call him over and just show him a little bit about cuckolding, domination, interracial, or whatever interests you. This is a good time to start a conversation about what attracts you to the being a Hot Wife, Cuckoldress, or his Mistress. He will most likely be scared since this appeared out of nowhere as far as he could see, but he will probably be very excited at the same time. My cuckold was so furious when I first spilled my feelings about his small dick, but the two days later he started to accept it. He admitted that although he was hurt and mad at me for telling him the truth, he admitted to being super hard when I was telling him how I felt, and later masturbated to my negative words. At this point, I realized my goal was going to be easy to make a reality.

10. Little Hand Humper. This term is usually appropriate for cuckolds since most of them sit around and abuse their little dicks all day long. Most are chronic masturbators. Beating the little meat day in and day out.

9. Big Clit Whore. Obvious cuckold term for when a man can fit in to a pair of panties made for women, that you are free to rename his little prick to a clit.

8. A Real man’s best friend. Real men owe the little guys of the world big thanks. More pussy is available for them since the pussy that was technically designated for your cuckold is available to them:) Besides cuckolds are kind of like pets.

7. House Guest. You know when another man makes himself at home in your cuckold’s favorite chair, in your bed, and finally in you. When you kick your cuckold out of your bedroom, and order him to the guest bedroom since you want some time alone for a change.

6. Creampie Stalker. You know how your cuckold husband drools and stares while you are getting power fucked. He is waiting and waiting for that fabulous creamy mess. Hoping that he will be ordered to clean up your creampie.

5. Big Cock Stalker. (Self explanatory. lol) Ladies, feel free to comment to this post if you have a big cock stalker on your hands. I would love to hear about it. Big Cock Stalkers can comment too. Confession is good for the soul.

4. Pussy Substitute. Ditto.

3. Plastic Prick. This is my favorite term of endearment for my cuckold when I have slapped the CB-2000 on his prick.

2. Petite Meat. Love this term for cuckolds since it sounds so little and cute. I like to use it when I am giggling and laughing about his lack of sizable equipment.

1. Genuine Faux Man. Just like the jewelry they hock on T.V. I feel this term is a big compliment since it sounds so fancy.