Men are always asking me if I can spot a cuckold. The definitive answer is yes. I can spot a cuckold from a mile away. I have cuckold-dar. The essence of what makes a cuckold cannot be hidden from view of an experienced cuckoldress such as myself. I can spot a cuckold in any setting, dressed any way, with or without a woman, and even a cuckold that is underachieving AKA. living in denial and trying his best to live as a real man.

It is hard for me to explain exactly how I know, but one of the best ways to prove the tendencies of a suitable cuckold is the “scurry method.” This is when a woman does anything to get a cuckold to prove that he not only is willing to jump for her, but makes the cuckold seek approval on the execution of this task. There are a kajillion examples of this.

One example of this could be as simple as dropping something to the floor. Sure it is good manners for a man, any man to retrieve an item a woman drops, but a cuckold will “scurry” after it. He will move quickly and will be hopeful of approval for completing the task. He will pander approval from the woman. He will be proud that he could perform a task for a woman. He will try to milk this little gesture as an opportunity to compliment the woman, and he will see if he can be of service in any other way. Even if he thinks he is exuding confidence, he is not. He is displaying desperation and submissive tendencies. A real man would simply pick the item up and return it. He would not scurry after an item, and he certainly would not pander approval for such a gesture. His confidence would be obvious, and would provoke a woman to pause and initiate more interaction.

Even if a cuckold tries to perform like a real man, he will linger too long, appear nervous, speak first in an attempt to milk the situation for continued contact, or simply not be able to maintain eye contact. His submissive nature will come thru in one way or another. I bet cuckolds being able to pass as real men, would be similar to the number of the general population being able to beat lie detectors. The numbers would not be impressive. I guess if you are submissive, the best thing to do is to accept it. You cannot fool a dominant woman, and besides why would you want to do that. It is better to embrace your gifts, then try to attain status that is out of your reach.

Of course these are my own personal observations, and they are not things that I noticed after getting involved in a cuckold relationship. I think they are obvious to all women, but most women have no idea what these signs mean other than that the “man” in question is an easy mark. That she will have an upper hand in her dealings with him, and she will never respect him as much after seeing him scurry. I would venture to guess that this is why so many men think that women like men that treat them badly. I certainly do not like men to treat me badly, but I never wanted to hook up with a scurrying little guy until I realized how much fun it could be, and that I could get everything I ever wanted.

Special Note: He who speaks first, loses. However if you are a cuckold, and choose not to speak first (or scurry) then you lose. Do not attempt to act cavalier toward women. It is your nature to defer to women. It is not so bad.